Saturday, August 11, 2012

Beauty, Athletics and Sexual Purity

Photo from the New York Times - Steve Dipaola/Reuters
For the past two weeks the world has been captured by the Olympics. My family LOVES the Olympics and the Olympics become a focal point of our nights together.

The Olympics have always served as minute glimpse of what the world could be - a world where athletes, coaches, citizens and world leaders come together in a spirit of competition, good will and unity.  It's a time when excellence is expected and seen.

The last few days Lolo Jones has caught the attention of the media. The New York Times ran an opinion piece "For Lolo Jones, Everything Is Image" http://nyti.ms/OB8lp2 written by Jere Longman that has sparked much debate about Lolo's treatment by the media.

Much of the debate has centered around her decision to stay true to her commitment to remain a virgin until she is married.  She has boldly stood in the cross hairs admitting that her decision has not always been easy but it's a covenant she made with God. There was a time in our culture that such personal commitment was lauded, admired and even encouraged. Now days standing firm on a religious principle, especially one related to a personal commitment to sexual purity, attracts the ridicule of many in the media and public today.

We are so pressured to relent to our basest desires that rare is the call for personal mastery, integrity, morality, purity and even a true commitment to God. Many have asked why Lolo would make such an "old fashioned" commitment especially in a world where "if it feels good, it's ok". Those person who share similar values have learned that while choosing to live a higher moral standard may lead to mockery and ridicule it never leads to regret, shame and embarrassment.

What would happen if Lolo relented? What if she abandoned her commitment?  Would she be welcomed to the party as an "enlightened soul"?

By some yes. But I suspect the majority, even those currently mocking, would be disappointed, disheartened and disillusioned at the fall of another hero.






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